Coming Out

QDear Dr. Darcy:I’m going to start by saying that if I could be a lesbian, I would be. I am so tired of the guys I date giving up on me if I don’t come within 5 minutes of oral. Do girls really orgasm that fast?My last boyfriend had a ...

Dear Darcy, my husband has a best friend and in the last 6-months he’s been spending more and more time with her. I’m not a jealous person by nature but I feel like my understanding is being taken advantage of. They’ve started going away one weekend a month, alone.  When she’s ...

Ah, Thanksgiving. The smell of familiar food. The gathering of family. And the dreaded conversations that you don’t want to have.From the personal:“So, are you dating anyone?” “When are you going to have kids?” “So what do you do?” To the political - which I won’t risk triggering you with teasers of -  ...

Dr. Darcy, my first 2 boyfriends cheated on me and even though that happened in my late teens / early 20’s, I still can’t manage to give a new partner the benefit of the doubt. I’m now in my 40’s and every relationship I have is overshadowed by my jealousy. ...

Dr. Darcy, I met a woman on Tinder and I really like her. We dated 2 months before making a commitment. A week later she told me she wants an open relationship. WTF? And now I feel like an asshole because what guy wouldn’t jump on the opportunity to sleep ...

I recently found out that my boyfriend is a crossdresser. He said he can't remember how it all started. He recently started talking to someone about it. If I'm totally against it, do you think there would ever be any kind of hope for us? I feel like I need ...