Archive for February 2023
3 Signs Your Partner Isn’t Right For You
I’m the first to suggest looking inward for the solution to relationship problems. There’s almost always something you can do differently to change the trajectory of your relationship. But sometimes, no amount of internal reflection, changed behavior, or LOVE will give you the happy ending you’re looking for. Because it turns out, love actually isn’t…
Read MoreCan You Have A Fight and Still Function As A Couple?
Dear Dr. Darcy, I have an issue with my boyfriend. Anytime we have plans with other people and we have a fight or we’re not in a great place, we either have to cancel or he shows up with a bad attitude. I’ve told him how upset this makes me and he insists I’m unreasonable.…
Read MoreWhy Your Partner Thinks You’re Always Criticizing Them
Every now and then I come up with a new thought that sheds light on a common relationship problem in a more illuminating way. Last month I had such a thought. I think I cracked the code on why sometimes even the most carefully worded feedback lands on our partners like water on hot oil. …
Read MoreWhen She Says “Don’t Stop,” Please Keep Going
Dr. Darcy, I keep having the same disappointing experience when I have casual sex. I get really close to finishing when the guy suddenly slows down and it lessens my orgasm. I even say, “Don’t Stop!” WTF? WTF is the first thought that pops into my head as well, but since it’s happened…
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