The Unsexy Question You Need To Ask By The Third Date

Everyone wants to pace the tough questions for fear of turning off the person you’re dating.  Problem is, if you wait till you catch feelings, you’re less inclined to ask and more inclined to minimize or spin an answer that would be a deal breaker if you learned of it early on.  Which is why…

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Why You Should Wait To Get Engaged

A friend of mine recently started dating someone new and he is…GONE.  To say he’s obsessed with his girlfriend doesn’t do it justice.  And to be clear, he should feel the way he’s feeling. If I could bottle that feeling, I’d drink from it every day. And I’d sell that shit.  There is nothing like…

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How Long Is Too Long To Wait For A Proposal?

Dear Dr. Darcy, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now. We are living together and in our early thirties. I’m ready to get engaged but when I bring it up he gets nervous and says it’s only been 3 years. But I feel like 3 years at our age is like 10…

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