When Seeking Revenge Bring Two Shovels

Dear Dr. Darcy: I’ve HAD IT with the way women treat me! Lesbians are CRAZY. I recently moved to a new city to get a ‘fresh start’ because my ex and I had had such a terrible breakup so I wanted to get away.  Anyway, the same bullshit started happening to me here in my…

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What To Tell A Shrink

Dear Dr. Darcy: The Department of Veterans Affairs diagnosed me with PTSD several years ago. I see a psychiatrist about every two months. Is it important that I tell her about my cross-dressing? ANSWER I think it’s probably important to tell your doctor anything and everything that you feel might broaden her understanding of who…

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How Important Is Sex

Greetings, Dr. Darcy: For almost one year, I have been getting to know a lovely man who resides on another continent…  In the midst of getting to know [him] and recognizing that this is taking me onto a path of love, I find myself feeling sad about a couple of problems: He has a problem…

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Increase Your Happiness

Dear Dr. Darcy: I am in need of advice! I am a single gay man who recently turned 40. I am dealing with a major case of low self-esteem & depression due to my life circumstances.  I try to be an up beat & positive person but every day it’s getting harder & harder. Feelings…

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Enough Is Enough

Hello. I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost 7 years now, and the whole relationship has been crazy. Her mother refuses to accept us, I mean to the point [where she bought] her daughter a house to keep us apart. Now I live with my girlfriend in the house her mother bought her, but I’m…

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Cross Dressing Husband

Hi Dr. Darcy. When I was about 10 yrs old, I tried on my mother’s stockings and skirt. I would have thoughts about wearing stockings, a skirt and pumps. I never acted on the thoughts. When I turned 26, I tried on my wife’s leather skirt and it made me feel great. I progressed slowly…

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Family Values

Dear Darcy: I grew up in a VERY conservative Christian home. My entire life was dominated by my church. I went to a Christian school my whole life then four years of Bible college. I wasn’t allowed to closely associate with anyone outside of our circle so every person, friend and close family member grew…

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Miss Taken

Dear Dr. Darcy: I married my wife back in 2009.  I was told living with her mother would be a temporary thing.  It’s now 2013 with absolutely no end in sight.  The mother-in-law issue is a big one for me.  I don’t know what to do. Whenever I think about leaving, it’s always because of…

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