Paying Attention to your ADHD Child

Dear Dr. Darcy: My 12-year old daughter was diagnosed with ADHD last year and has been prescribed medication ever since.  Unfortunately, despite being medicated for 7 months, her behavior still hasn’t improved.  She’s at a top private school in Manhattan which is at its wits’ end as her behavior deviates significantly from the majority of…

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In Search of HomoFriends

Dear Dr. Darcy: I think I am a lesbian, or at least bisexual, but I don’t know how to explore it some more. And I tried talking to my best friend about it a little, but she thought I was joking, so I pretended I was because I have never been very good at sharing…

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Turning Pain Into Purpose

Dear Dr. Darcy, For the past two years I’ve thrown myself into volunteering with a local dog rescue. To say it fed my spirit is an understatement.  I was really and truly committed to rescue.  I loved every minute of it.  I didn’t go on vacations and when I was off from work, I was…

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Oh Brother. I mean, Sister.

Dear Dr. Darcy: My sister buys alcohol for her 15,16 and 19 year old daughters. She allows them to smoke pot in the home and has actually purchased it for them. Last week she found out her 15 year old had sex with a 21 year old house guest. (ex boyfriend’s son). She won’t call…

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Monster In-Laws

Dear Dr. Darcy: My father-in-law hits himself repeatedly in the head, hard. It’s a problem he has had his whole life. He also suffers from depression and anxiety. It has become a huge problem now later in his life. My family and I suffer as well, since we rent from my in-laws and are subjected…

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Big Kid. Big Problems

Dear Dr. Darcy: My husband and I have a 19 year old son in college with ADHD [attention deficit hyperactivity disorder].  He has no judgment or impulse control.  He went to a private school in Manhattan where he received enormous support from the staff.  He’s now a freshman at a very good school and he’s…

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