Archive for August 2017

You know what? Just typing that title made me sweat a little – and I’m female. I’ve been socialized to want a long-term relationship. And in terms of how I’m hardwired, there’s nothing about me that avoids commitment. So, if that subject made me uncomfortable, I can only imagine how it made you feel. For…

Humans come out of the womb hardwired to love and be loved – to be in relationships. We wouldn’t survive infancy without others. That said, you’d think we’d be better at selecting partners who we’re compatible with. But all you have to do is look at your relationship history to know how untrue that is.…