Cheapskate

Dr. Darcy: My girlfriend is wonderful in so many ways but she has this one idiosyncrasy that drives me crazy: She doesn’t believe in tipping waiters.  I live in Manhattan and she lives within driving distance, so every weekend she comes into the city and we go out to eat at really high end places,…

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So You Think You’re Ready To Cohabitate…

Dr. Darcy: I have a financial question.  I’m a corporate attorney making double what my girlfriend makes.  She is in graduate school part-time and works full-time.  We’re moving in together in 2 weeks and I’m not sure how we should handle the finances.  I can easily cover our expenses myself, but I don’t want to…

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Sex Matters

Dear Dr. Darcy: My boyfriend doesn’t have sex with me…he stopped after 6 months.  We’ve now been together for over a year and I’m starting to go crazy. He tells me he’s just not very sexual and that most couples don’t have sex after a while.  My guy friends tell me he’s definitely cheating on…

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Strengths & Weaknesses

Dear Dr. Darcy: I’m the youngest of 5 children, I’m a girl, and I’ve always been louder, more energetic, and more social than my siblings.  I’m referenced as the drama queen in my family.  This label was cute when I was growing up.  Now that I’m in my 20’s it’s less cute.  I feel like…

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Two Boys…and a Girl.

Hi.  I’m a college freshman and have been dating my boyfriend since last semester.  A few nights ago I had a guy friend visit from another school and we were hanging out in my suite with my boyfriend and sort of hooked up and had sex.  All of us.  The thing is it wasn’t so…

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Twins And The City

Dear Dr. Darcy: I’m a twin in my late 30’s.  My sister, who is my twin, has never brought home a date, and to my knowledge has never dated.  She played hard-core sports in high school, was captain of every team she played on and went to a D1 school on a full scholarship.  I’m…

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NoThing

Welcome to Format Free Fridays at AskDrDarcy.com, the one day a week when I break the format of answering your questions and I dispense that which we rarely welcome in life: Unsolicited advice. Today I want to talk about money, materialism and our society’s endless quest for the acquisition thereof.  I know your finger wants…

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Burned-Out

Dear Dr. Darcy, I don’t know what’s happened to me lately.  I can’t seem to get it together and do what I need to do to manage my life.  I find myself overwhelmed by small things like the phone ringing or a knock at the door.  I’m not returning phone calls, I’m not opening mail,…

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