Archive for May 2016

The majority of my clients are so well educated on the subject of relationships that it blows my mind whenever someone in my personal life shares a story illustrating less-than-appropriate ways of resolving conflict. I recently had such a conversation with a friend I’ll call Aaron who, after describing a recent fight with his boyfriend,…

I just spent an hour researching the search term, “why you’re still alone.” I always research blog topics before writing to ensure that I’m not just regurgitating information that’s already been disseminated. No. Chance. Here. I’ve never seen a topic riddled with more apathetic answers devoid of encouraging people to take personal responsibility in all…

Ah, constructive criticism: That which those closest to us can expect to receive in exchange for loving us and making us feel safe enough to express any thought that pops into our head.  We dish it as though the recipient should feel honored by it – as though the very act of offering it should…