5 Questions You NEED To Ask on a First Date

Ah, the awkwardness of the first date. There’s nothing quite like it. At least in a job interview (where the awkwardness is about equal), it’s acceptable for the employer to ask questions designed to root out crazies.  Yet on a first date, where the ‘candidate’ stands to wreak more havoc than any other person in…

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Prince Charming or a Psycho? 6 Distinctions

He’s not going to show up for the first date swinging an axe with swastika tattoos in plain sight. And since men are 3 times as likely to be psychopaths (clinical term: antisocial personality disorder) and narcissists (which I’m calling psycho), I’ve chosen to use the male pronoun for this post, lest I’m accused of…

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Do’s and Don’ts of The First Date

I know, I know, the whole topic is cringe worthy. But frankly, if you were following the clichés, I wouldn’t be hearing about so many people having the one-and-done. I want you to have a second date! So open up. Here comes your medicine: DO show your date that they have your undivided attention. Make eye…

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