When To Call It Quits

I’m not a quitter. Not personally and certainly not professionally. People come to me when they need hope – a cheerleader – someone to fuel inject them with possibility. But every now and then, a client or a friend shares a story about a relationship and it becomes profoundly clear to me that the solution involves ending the relationship.

Knowing when to end a relationship is one of the most important adult skills you’ll ever acquire. Click below for 5 tips to ensure that your relationship doesn’t pass its expiration date.

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This Is Why Your Relationship Sucks

If you’re unhappy with your relationship – the shortage of quality time spent together, the amount of sex you have, the lack of excitement, or who walks the dog more – it’s a result of two things: The way you’re thinking and acting.

To get a new result, you’re going to have to adopt and employ a new way of thinking and acting. It’s that simple.  How can I be so certain? Because aside from being a shrink, I’ve been where you’re at. And until I changed myself, nothing else changed. Click below to read the six most common causes of miserable relationships.

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New Year, New Sex + Love Strategy. Bring it, 2019.

I don’t know about you, but 2018 felt less like a year and more like a decade to me. Or like I was cramming for final exams. All. Year. Long.

Realizing that I’ve been feeling so much pressure makes my inner rebel want to take over. It makes me want to break rules. Test boundaries. Push back.

So, as 2018 (thankfully) fades in our collective rearview mirror, I’ve decided to surrender control of my keyboard – and this blog post – to my inner 16-year old.  Here’s how she thinks you should shake things up in 2019, so we all feel a lot less serious this time next year:

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