A Woman’s Right To Choose

Dear Dr. Darcy: I have been in the [LGBT] community for more than a dozen years.  I am 35 years old and I’ve dated every gender and sexual orientation there is (because I am open-minded), although I have always identified as a lesbian.   I am now at a point in my life where I don’t…

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A-sexual thing

Dear Dr. Darcy I have been in a relationship with my [live-in] girlfriend for almost 2years now and it’s been amazing, but recently she has discovered that for sure she feels that she is Asexual-which I completely understand but I don’t think she knows I do. 3 days ago she tells me that she feels…

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The Teenage Years

Dear Dr. Darcy: My son has been acting strange lately.  He’s 15 years old and he’s a pretty good student, but lately he’s had a lot of problems with his friends.  He had the same best friend for 10 years and [my son] abruptly stopped speaking to him this month, only to replace him with…

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Prideful

Hey Dr. Darcy.  I’m in a low, low place and hoping you can help.  My girl and I were together for almost 3 years (1 ½  of them good) and just before the summer she ended it.  It’s taken me 2 months of being alone to realize how much I love her and that it’s…

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‘Theraphobe’ Returns

Hi again, Dr. D! It’s me “Theraphobe.” So, some new revelations have come into my life and what I once believed to be true is no longer reality. I had initially been floored when my wife came to me one night suddenly in tears and said she is going to therapy that next week due…

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Am I Bisexual?

Dear Dr. Darcy: I hope you can help me make sense of the confusion in my head/heart lately. I’m married to a man, and I always thought of myself as straight. That being said, there have always been women I’ve noticed and been drawn to. I used to think it was because my mother died…

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Don’t Do It

Dear Dr. Darcy I’m going to start off with: I’m a dense person. My best friend recently came out of the closet to me about three months ago. It took me awhile to actually register that she was a lesbian even though she came out. She said it indirectly and I was just confused. Ever…

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Fretish

Dear Dr. Darcy: I am a 31 year old male and just learned that my boyfriend of 1 year has some pretty outrageous kink fetishes.  I don’t so much have an issue with him liking to watch lesbian porn when we have sex, though I’m not thrilled with his request for me to cross-dress.  My…

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