Archive for January 2021
Questions You Shouldn’t Have to Ask on A First Date
If you’ve been following me for any length of time, you know that I’m all about personal responsibility – not in the capital R sort of way, rather, in the how did you contribute to the conflict you’re in sort of way. Basically, if you can’t pony up to your mistakes, you’re screwed when it…
Read MoreBridging The Gap Between Us
I’ve been thinking a lot about healing lately. It was the throughline in Biden’s inauguration. He called it unity. We have to “unite” he says. It’s the only way to heal. There are other voices who say that healing can’t begin until justice is served. Those who enabled four years of national trauma have to…
Read MoreThe Enemy of Your Orgasm
Dear Dr. Darcy: I’m going to start by saying that if I could be a lesbian, I would be. I am so tired of the guys I date giving up on me if I don’t come within 5 minutes of oral. Do girls really orgasm that fast? My last boyfriend had a scruff and when…
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