13 Going On 30

Dear Dr. Darcy- My daughter is driving me crazy.  She’s 13 going on 30.  She wants to rush through her teenage years as though her life depends on it.  She loves everything ‘adult.‘  She has older siblings and only wants to hang out with them (much to the displeasure of my older children).  I don’t…

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Cozy In The Closet

Dear Dr. Darcy, I’m a young lesbian, I’ve come to terms with my sexual orientation over the past few years and don’t have a problem with it, however I don’t ever plan on coming out. What I want to ask you is if you believe someone can lead a happy, fulfilling life in the closet.…

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More Than Clothing in the Closet

Dear Dr. Darcy: I’m in 11th grade and I last week I was looking for a shirt in my brother’s room (he’s in college) and I found things in his room that make me think he’s definitely gay.   I have no problem with it if he is gay, but he’s not “out” about it. We…

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Three’s Company

Dear Dr. Darcy: I have had fantasies about threesomes my whole life.  I am in my late 20’s, married, and I don’t know how to bring this up to my husband.  He’s never expressed wanting a threesome.  Do you think it’s a mistake to ask for one and if not, how do you suggest I…

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Happily Ever After

Dear Dr. Darcy: I’m in my mid 30’s, I’ve been married for 5 years, and now I’m getting divorced. I grew up so much in this relationship and I credit him for who I’ve become.  My entire life, all I ever wanted was to marry a man, have children, and live happily ever after. He’s…

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What Do You Want To Be When You Grow Up?

Welcome to Format Free Fridays at AskDrDarcy.com, the one day a week when I break the format of answering your questions and I dispense that which we rarely welcome in life: Unsolicited advice. Most people struggle with this question.  And why shouldn’t they?  Choosing a career is no easier or less impactful than picking a…

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Not So Kinky

Dear Dr. Darcy: My girlfriend is very kinky.  She always wants to dominate me and use toys but I prefer old-fashioned romance.  The differences between us are becoming harder to navigate.  I find myself avoiding sex altogether because she seems only interested in strap-ons.  I became a lesbian because I don’t like penetration – of…

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Big Baby

Dear Dr. Darcy: I have been wearing diapers since I was 8 years old and now I’m 25 years old.  I pee in them now and I started drinking out of a bottle and drinking baby formula and eating baby food and I can’t stop. I love it too much and I can’t tell my…

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