In Case Of Emergency – Holiday Coping Skills Inside

You asked for it. This is your list of the most stressful things that can happen on a holiday – and my best tool for each nightmarish scenario. Happy holidays from your favorite outspoken lesbian shrink.  TALK Personal questions, political talk, unsolicited advice — hands down your biggest concerns involve what might come out of…

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Should I Pull A Ben Affleck?

I met someone last summer. Sexual chemistry was good, but she was hot and cold, so I asked what’s wrong. She said she’s scared of ending up in a marriage like her last. She’s intimidated by my symbols of prosperity and she feels bad about herself around me.  I thought we were done until she…

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How To Have A Happish Holiday

AskDrDarcy just turned 12 years old this week.  I started my blog in 2010 because all around me, people were vibrating at that frenetic frequency that felt contagious during the holiday season, and I found myself giving the same advice again and again, wishing I could put it on blast — if for no other…

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