The Value of College

Dear Dr. Darcy: I’m going into my senior year of high school and my parents are really having a hard time with the fact that I’m not going to college. They are suddenly putting so much pressure on me and they don’t want to hear my reasons for not going. I don’t want to go…

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Sapiosexual

Dear Dr. Darcy, I recently got hired to work at a school as a mathematics teacher, and have decided to move out with a roommate from my parents place because I am about to start my career and feel they are a distraction. I am just waiting to sign the lease and I am extremely…

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Where’d She Go?

Dear Dr. Darcy: Ok so I met this girl at work, immediately we had intense eye contact we [and we] would stare at each other and its like nothing else existed at that moment. I was able to work with her one day and we hit it off good and had pretty good chemistry. Then…

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A Butch Who Won’t Go Down?

Dear Dr. Darcy: I am a feminine bi sexual woman who recently had a lesbian relationship with my butch bisexual girlfriend. We broke up over sex and STDs. We’ve known each other for half a year and just became seriously committed. She didn’t want to perform oral sex because she is afraid of STDs.  So,…

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Suffocating In The Closet

Dear Dr. Darcy: How do I deal with questions about my relationship situation at work? I’ve worked for the same company for about 9 years, most of my close co-workers are very respectful of me and just don’t pry. I am not “out” at work I guess you could say. I assume most people have…

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Your Greatest Weaknesses Are Also Your Greatest Strengths

Welcome to Format Free Friday, when I break the format of answering your questions and I dispense that which we rarely welcome in life: Unsolicited Advice. I was having a little chat on Facebook this week with some friends about the most common things I say to clients in my office and then it struck…

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An Open Letter To Unhappily Married Parents

Dear Dr. Darcy: I’m about to start college this year and I’m an only child. Although I love my parents very much, I can’t stand living with them and I’m very excited to be moving to a dorm this month. My parents have one of the worst marriages I’ve ever seen. It’s worse than any…

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Texting The Weiner

Dear Dr. Darcy: I’ve been married almost 20 years and during that time my husband has had some online shenanigans that he’s sworn have ended but I continuously find out that he’s still up to his old tricks. The latest occurred when he accidentally took my phone to work, leaving me with his phone (they…

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