Romance Advice

Dear Dr. Darcy: I’ve been with the same person for years. I don’t have any specific complaints. We get along, we live together, no one’s cheated, but I’m just going through the motions. I’m bored. When is it time to end a relationship? ANSWER Boring people are bored. If you’re looking for me to give…

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Finding a Therapist

Dear Dr. Darcy I’m one of the few New Yorker’s who has never crossed the threshold into a therapist’s office. I’ve been told that I should try therapy but I’ve always avoided it because I feel like I should be able to fix my own problems. I also hesitate to go because I don’t know…

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Lesbian Dating

Dear Dr. Darcy – I have my first date with a woman and I’m very nervous. I’m pretty sure I’m gay, but I’ve never been with a girl. Needless to say, I’m anxious about the actual hook-up part of the night. What should I expect? What should I be prepared to do? ANSWER: What a…

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3 Way

Dear Dr. Darcy: I’ve been with my partner for a few months. It’s starting to get serious and that’s fine with me. The thing is, I’m dating a butch who is very hot, she’s been with a lot of girls and she doesn’t have a reputation for being faithful. Last night she asked me if…

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BiCurious

Dear Dr. Darcy: I am 26 and I have been married to a man for 3 years. I have only had heterosexual relationships and I have had two brief drunken sexual encounters with women. I really enjoy sex with men, but I often find myself fantasizing about women. I have recently preferred to be alone…

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