Different Love Languages, Or Something Concerning?

I have been dating a guy who always has to be touching me, even when we are sitting watching TV. The few times we were intimate I’m there physically but not emotionally. I don’t know why I can’t be touchy like he is.   My last relationship was really bad and abusive.  How do I get…

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I F^cked Up

It wasn’t the worst fuck up imaginable, but it was not good.  I was on a podcast talking about Johnny Depp and Amber Heard’s trial, and the host asked me to explain what it means when someone is diagnosed with both borderline personality disorder and histrionic personality disorder.  “So what does that mean? Other than…

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For Better Or For Worse

“For better or for worse.” It’s probably the most widely used phrase exchanged in wedding ceremonies. And I have a problem with it. I’m all for making a commitment to the person I love. And I’m all for loyalty. And I’ll tell you a secret: When I love someone, I love them forever – and…

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