Archive for March 2011

Dear Dr. Darcy I have cross-dressed for many years but now I can’t stop. Is it OK to cross-dress all the time? I have a lot of anxiety. ANSWER People deal with stress in many ways.  I overwork.  You cross-dress.  That said, neither of our coping mechanisms is a long-term solution, as I’m sure you…

  Dear Dr Darcy, I have been in therapy for approx 12 months for social anxiety and depression.  I have a wonderful psychologist who I trust, yet I am still unable to disclose my sexual orientation. I know I should have probably told her from the start, but fear of rejection etc. I was embarrassed…

  Dear Dr. Darcy: I have a big problem and it’s called procrastination.  It’s getting in the way at work and recently my boyfriend told me that if I don’t ‘get it together’ he can’t date me anymore. I’m always late, always forgetting things and my To-do List never turns into a Done-List.  I’ve been…

  Dear Dr. Darcy: My son was sent home from school last week because he was playing video games during chemistry.  He’s been obsessed with video games since he was 3 years old.  I’ve tried to limit the time he spends playing them but I don’t have the luxury of being a stay-at-home mother, as…

  Dear Darcy: I found out that my husband is taking pictures on his cell phone of his genitals & also recorded himself masturbating.  Is he cheating on me or is something else going on? ANSWER Typically when someone records any video or takes any photos on a cell phone, it’s with the intention of…