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I am a 40-year old [lesbian] and have been in therapy for over 20 years. I am aware that many clients believe that their therapist is in love with them or vice versa, [but] this is different.

My therapist is also a lesbian. She often over-compliments me, is outwardly ‘different’ toward me and others have noticed. When alone, she tells me that Monday is her favorite day of the week because she gets to see and talk to me.

She asked me today what I think appropriate boundaries between [us] should be and why I have never asked any [personal] questions about her. She agreed with me that a professional boundary should be maintained but seemed disappointed and asked me if asking for her phone number would be crossing a boundary.

Am I being punked or is this really happening? Could she really have feelings toward me? She stares at my eyes. I’ve thought she might kiss me before! Am I overreacting?

Ladies, while we take in the everchanging insanity provoked each day by 45 – anti-Muslim rhetoric, children being separated from parents, an impending war with Iran, a trade war with China – American women are having their rights stripped away.

I’ll repeat that for those of you who said it would never happen: While Trump distracts us with his craziness, we women are losing our rights – right here in America.

Women.

We feel compelled to reach an orgasm – with our partner as the facilitator.

We want you to feel good and we know that watching us finish makes you…finish faster. If I can be honest.

Which is why we fake it. Often.

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Dear Dr. Darcy:

I recently began dating someone several years younger than I am. OK – he’s 15 years younger, and I’m sure you’re going to tell me that I had it coming, but he ultimately ghosted me. Why do people do this? And were there warning signs I missed?

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