Wrestling With Gender

Dear Dr. Darcy: Hi. I’m a sixteen year old guy and I have absolutely no idea what the hell is going on with my body. In short, I want to be a girl. I’m always looking at my female friends with envy. Their chests are just what I want! I always look into Victoria Secret…

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Sexpectations

Dear Dr. Darcy: I am a freshman in college and just had my first hookup with a girl.  Although I can say without hesitation that it was better than anything I’ve ever experienced with a boy, I feel like I wasn’t very good.  She kept pulling away from me when I was, well, you know…And…

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The Unavailable Dance

Dear Dr. Darcy I recently met up with a woman that I haven’t seen in thirty years.  We start dating for a couple weeks and had amazing sex after the third date. She calls me the next day and tells me how great everything was and that she likes me and wants to see me.…

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Impotent Matters

Dear Dr. Darcy: I am newly married to a beautiful, wonderful woman who is in her sexual prime. I’m 43 and am not interested in sex at all. She does every thing a man could want from a wife and more.  She thinks I have another women and that’s why I’m not interested. I have…

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The T-Factor

Dear Dr. D. I broke up with my girlfriend last month after a year of her being emotionally abusive.  Since the breakup I’ve felt absolutely lost without her.  I don’t go out anymore except to places that I think she might be at and where I might run into her.  I am so lonely.  Can…

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Road Rules For Open Relationships

          Dr. Darcy, My girlfriend just told me that she wants an open relationship.  I knew she had open relationships in the past, but she didn’t express any interest in that with me until now.  I’m really confused.  I don’t come from a world where people have multiple partners.  And I…

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To Lend or Not To Lend…

Dear Dr. Darcy I’m writing about an issue I’m having with my best friend. Whenever I try to speak with her about anything serious, she tells me that it’s not a good time to talk – then she never follows through with calling me back.  It’s always this cat and mouse game of me calling…

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Oral Skills

  Dr. Darcy, Hi.  I’m a straight girl in my 20’s dating a straight guy in his 30’s.  I love my boyfriend very much and we have a very good relationship.  My family loves him and everyone expects us to marry soon.  But I can’t marry someone that isn’t good at oral.  I’ve tried telling…

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