Family (and therapy) Frustrations

Dear Dr. Darcy: I’ve been in and out of therapy for 3 years.  It’s not that I’ve suffered any serious abuse.  No one ever beat me or sexually abused me. My family just wasn’t very sophisticated in the way they raised me.  I know that they did the best they could.  But now I’ve had…

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Disillusioned

Dear Dr. Darcy: I’m 24 years old and I’m already becoming disillusioned with life. I expected to be a high-earner in my chosen profession, never considering that I’d graduate during the worst economy in history and that I’d be lucky to be employed let alone a high earner.  I still haven’t found the right guy. …

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Butch Blues

Dear Dr. Darcy: I’m a 29-year old butch writing because I’m hooking up with a really hot girl. The problem is that she’s straight.  She identifies as bi but you know how some bi girls are really just on their way to identifying as lesbian? Well, that’s not this girl. I can totally tell she’s…

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Fortune 100 Dad

Dear Dr. Darcy: I am the CEO of a Fortune 100 Company and yet I can’t run my home.  My children who are ages 2 and 8, have overtaken my life.  When I am home I am virtually always yelling.  My wife works as well, though only part-time.  We have 2 full-time nannies who the…

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Train Wreck

Hi Dr. Darcy I wrote to you a few months ago; I’m Friends Without Benefits… [Dr. Darcy recap:  Writer is a woman who is married to a man.  She is in love with her girlfriend who is also married to a man.  Both husbands endorse the women’s relationship. At the time of the first question,…

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Family Feuds

Dear Dr. Darcy: Last winter my brother and I had a fight and we haven’t spoken in just over a year. He has always treated me as though he doesn’t respect me very much and for me, this fight was the last straw.  The thing is, my wife just got pregnant and I’m torn over…

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To Drink or Not To Drink: Genetics of Alcoholism

Dear Dr Darcy, I’m a nineteen-year old girl from Belgium and I have a question for you…When I was 11 years old, my parents divorced because my dad had an alcohol addiction. My dad was drunk practically every day. Not that he was abusive or something, just drunk. My dad never wanted to go to…

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Finding Friends In The City

Dear Dr. Darcy: I was wondering what your advice would be to a 24-year old New York woman who is questioning her sexuality. I want to have gay friends. I wanted you to know I live in New York because I think your advice will be different for me than for someone from another area.…

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