Archive for January 2011
Sister, Sister
Dear Dr. Darcy: I am thinking of asking someone out who I’ve known for many years but there’s a complication: I used to date her sister. Its even more complicated b/c the sister is younger and more attractive than my ex. You think this is a bad idea? ANSWER I’m trying to identify the words…
Read MoreHe Hearts Lesbians
Hi. I’m a straight male who loves lesbians, and not in the stereotypical hetero-creep way. I’ve lived in NYC my entire life and have always attracted and become friends with lesbians. Anyway, many of my friends and family don’t believe that I’m straight. They think I’m gay because I’m always around lesbians. Do you have…
Read MorePartner Rivalry
Dear Dr. Darcy: My boyfriend and I are both in theater. We both sing, dance and act. We are similarly built and are often sent out on the same auditions. Last week I was cast for something and he was passed over. My question is this: How do you handle jealousy in same-sex relationships? Particularly…
Read MoreHow Do You Know When It’s Right?
Dear Dr. Darcy: My girlfriend wants to move in together. It’s been about 7 months, so I can’t accuse her of U-hauling me. The thing is, I’ve never lived with a partner before. I’m in my 30’s and I’m very independent, but I get the feeling that if I don’t agree, she’s going to end…
Read MoreRelationship Rescue
Dear Dr. Darcy: My partner and I both have very demanding jobs in New York City. We get home and we’re absolutely drained at the end of the day. It’s usually after 10 at night and as we eat dinner together, we each have our laptops or iphones out and we’re finishing up end–of-day work. …
Read MoreBait-And-Switch Girlfriend?
Dear Dr. Darcy: My girlfriend used to be kinky – we met in a three way and now she basically wants missionary style sex. She won’t talk dirty, won’t watch porn, and forget inviting a third person into our bedroom. I’m becoming worried that we have lesbian bed death. What to do? ANSWER: Your girlfriend…
Read MoreParenting 101
Dear Darcy: My son is 13 years old and he has always been closer to his father than me. This never bothered me, but in the last year or so, he’s gotten more and more disrespectful to me. It starts out teasing but it doesn’t end there. And god forbid I ask him to help…
Read More6 Reasons Why Your Life Blows
Intro to Why Your Life Blows: If you’re unhappy with any aspect of your life ~ the amount of money you have, the quality of your relationships, or your inability to get things done, it’s a result of 2 things: The way you’re thinking and the way you are acting do not work. To get…
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