How To Make It Through The First Three Dates

As a relationship therapist, it’s not unusual for me to help my clients set up and optimize their online dating profiles.  I do it when I feel they’ve done enough of the deep work to attract and be attracted to different kinds of partners — the ones they want — as opposed to repeating old…

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What Dreams About Cheating Actually Mean

Dear Dr. Darcy, This weird thing seems to happen to me which I’ve started to call “dream cheating.”  I’m in a happy marriage and love my husband and do not have trust issues. But every once in a while I will have a very realistic dream where my husband cheats on me. It feels so…

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9 Signs You Are About To Be Ghosted

Dear Dr. Darcy: I recently began dating someone several years younger than I am. OK – he’s 15 years younger, and I’m sure you’re going to tell me that I had it coming, but he ultimately ghosted me. Why do people do this? And were there warning signs I missed?     People ghost each…

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