A Year In Review: My Highlights and Lowlights of 2016

Year-end blog posts kill me. It’s the pressure. I want to say something uniquely inspiring – which is sort of like a musician hoping to write something original – and even though I know this, even though I’m clear that pressure is kryptonite to creativity, I can’t help it.  Which is why I’m posting with…

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How Trump Supporters Can Help Unite America

For weeks, I’ve listened as client after client plopped on my couch, riddled with anxiety over the long list of human rights that Trump’s presidency will put in jeopardy. Many of their fears are predictable: Losing health care benefits, undocumented friends or family members being deported, a resurgence of stop-and-frisk, Muslim brothers and sisters being…

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Why Jealousy Is A Choice

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You’ve been misled. You’ve been told that jealousy is an emotion. That it’s something beyond your control. That it happens to you. I’m here to tell you that jealousy is not exclusively a feeling – not when it impacts your relationship. That kind of jealousy results from meaning that you assign to an external event.  …

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