Deciding Under The Influence

Dear Dr. Darcy: I just got my 3rd DUI [driving under the influence] and this time I lost my license for an entire year.  As though that wasn’t enough, my boyfriend decided it was time to ask me if I think I’m maybe an alcoholic.  I don’t know what defines an alcoholic.  I don’t drink…

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Miss Management

Dear Darcy: I’m 26 years old and I have the life skills of a ten year old.  I’m chronically late (at least 20 minutes…sometimes an hour), I pay all of my bill late (at least one thing a month is turned off b/c I forgot to pay it), my work and personal schedules are so…

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The Cold War

Dr. Darcy: I’ve been married to my husband for 6 years.  We got married in our mid 20’s and bought a home right away, so early on we were pretty tight for money.  He’s in his own business and became a workaholic.  Maybe not exactly meeting the definition, but he worked 10-12 hours a day. …

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Discriminating Matters

Dear Dr. Darcy: I was recently fired from a job and I’m not sure if I should do anything about it or if I should just focus on getting a new job. Basically I was hired to be an assistant and my boss kept making sexual comments about me which made me uncomfortable and eventually…

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The Cat Call

Dear Dr. Darcy: I just don’t understand women’s hostility toward men.  Yesterday I saw a beautifully dressed woman walking down the street and I told her that she looked stunning and she turned around and basically attacked me, telling me that I had no right to speak to her since she doesn’t know me and…

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Mother Fuc$#r

Dear Dr. Darcy: I’m a female in my 20’s and I have the most horrendous relationship with my mother.  We don’t even live together (thankfully), but you’d never know it because she knows my every move, every day of my life.  She insists that I check in with her wherever I go, I have to…

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Same Behaviors. Different Outcome?

Dear Dr. Darcy: My ex and I broke up over a year ago, but [we] remain close.  During the time that we dated she had issues making a commitment to me and insisted on dating other women.  Well I tried doing it her way but after a while I couldn’t take the pain of feeling…

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Blessed Mother

Dear Dr. Darcy: I have a 16-year old son who is going to be the death of me.  He never helps out around the house unless I’m threatening him, and all he ever wants to do is be with his friends and girlfriend.  We had his I.Q. tested many years ago and he tested at…

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