Why You’ll Suck At Picking Your Own Therapist

Virtually every week, a colleague, a friend, or a friend of a client, asks me to recommend a therapist to them. As much as I hate doing this (mostly because the pool of talented therapists is about the size of a puddle), I’m always willing to help. Left to your own devices you will pick…

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The Worried Therapist

Dear Dr. Darcy: My therapist tells me that he worries about me and he’s always afraid that I will kill myself, he thinks that he will come in for our session and I won’t be there because [I’ll have] killed myself. He says it causes him stress. Do you think he cares too much? What…

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