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11 Tips To Fix Lesbian Bed Death

Lesbian bed death is not necessarily symptomatic of a doomed relationship and it's certainly not a phenomenon exclusive to the lesbian community. Pair any gender combination in a long-term relationship and most will report a decline in sexual activity over time. What I've found in my work with couples is that ...
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Doom and Gloom: Dealing With A Chronic Complainer

Dear Dr. Darcy: I have a close friend who complains about her life constantly.  She’s in a bad relationship (or none at all), she’s underutilized at work, she’s fat, ugly, still in love with an ex – you name it, she’s annoyed by it. Some of it’s true (not her ...
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Facebook Troll

Dear Dr. Darcy:  My boyfriend broke up with me recently and I’m having a super hard time with it. I’ve never experienced pain like this in my life. I can’t eat, I can’t sleep, and I can barely function at work. I honestly feel like I’m losing my mind. I’m ...
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Lady Chastity

Dear Dr. Darcy: My ex-boyfriend was quite kinky and was always introducing new things to the relationship. I wasn't all the way into it but went along with it to make him happy. As part of a "cuckolding" and "male chastity" scene, he introduced me to my current girlfriend. The scene ...
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Success Leaves Clues

Welcome to Format Free Friday, when I break the format of answering your questions and I dispense that which we rarely welcome in life: Unsolicited Advice. Today, a close friend and participant in my Goals Bootcamp program sent me this photo, and it blew my mind. Why? Because it encapsulates ...
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Two Boys… And A Girl

Hi.  I’m a college freshman and have been dating my boyfriend since last semester.  A few nights ago I had a guy friend visit from another school and we were hanging out in my suite with my boyfriend and sort of hooked up and had sex.  All of us.  The ...
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Modeling Courage

Dr. Darcy, I have I very serious problem. When I was around 10 I was a model and stayed at my photographers house for a summer. Over the summer I was sexually molested many, many times. And my parents still don't know.... and it really bothers me and it is ...
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The Importance of the First Kiss

Dear Dr. Darcy: I’m a man in my early 30’s looking for a relationship. Back in college I had a really bad experience and I think it’s interfering with me finding a woman today. What happened was I hooked up with a girl one night after a party and the ...
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9 Things Happy People Do That You Don’t

Happiness, it turns out, is a 50/50 roll of the genetic dice: Half of us are born with a predisposition for it.  Those who aren’t are left with a choice: Do you want to live your life grumpy and pessimistic, predisposed to anxiety and depression, or do you want to ...
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Welcome To The Power Struggle

Dear Dr. Darcy:Lately my girlfriend and I fight constantly. I don’t know how this happened because we used to get along so well but suddenly, like within the last couple of months, everything she says pisses me off and judging from the way she snaps at me, I’m guessing I ...
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When Is Enough Enough?

Dr. Darcy, I'm a 40-year old woman who fell in love with a woman for the first time. It is like nothing I have ever experienced. But I have a problem with her talking and hanging out with her ex, who she admits still has feelings for her. She even ...
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My Daughter’s Fiancé is Disrespectful to Her

Dear Dr. Darcy:  Help! My daughter's fiancé is mean and disrespectful towards her in front of my husband and myself. It can be a word or a whole tirade. On Mother's Day my daughter and her fiancé made us a lovely breakfast at their home. The fiancé was cooking French ...
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