The NEW Cuddle Buddy

I have a cuddle buddy… All I really wanted was a sexual night now and then. Friendship. Now I get all the drama and jealousy… Seems to be my pattern: finding women who feel I am safe and then I am totally disgusted in the level of their jealousy or spiritual defensiveness or wanting/demanding time without…

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Women: The New Fixer Upper

Dear Dr. Darcy: I have been dating my girlfriend for a year and a half… She is still married and has young children. We have been living together for a year… and I have not met her kids yet. I feel she does not want to include me in her life. Every Saturday she leaves…

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Healing After Rape

Dr. Darcy, I wrote you a while back about reengaging socially after rape. [Although] my life… is still deeply affected by [the rape]… my social life is actually existent, which is a step in the right direction. The problem I am [now] experiencing is a complete loss of sexual desire.  I used to be a…

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Mixed Signals

Screen shot 2012-01-02 at 10.11.02 AM Dear Dr. Darcy: This girl and I, both 22-year old females, have been college classmates for a few years but started hanging out lately.  The first time we hung out was a few weeks ago where we drank at her house. She was buzzed but not drunk. I had…

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