Texts From An Ex

Dear Dr. Darcy, I went through my boyfriend’s phone (and I know I shouldn’t have). I found texts from his ex as well as half nude photos of her sent recently. He swore they were just friends when I last asked him.  So if this is so why the hell does he have texts from…

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Permission To Jump?

Dr. Darcy, I have been married for 9 years and was very much in love with my wife, but for years now she has been very emotionally abusive.  She calls me names and puts me down in front of our friends. She tells me she wants me to die. She says she will be happy knowing…

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Straight Girl Needs Help

I am a 20 year female college student who has recently gone through a breakup of over a year long relationship. I am absolutely sure my ex-boyfriend truly still loves me (he does not deny this in the least), but he is, understandably, sick of being in a long distance relationship and feels the need…

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Finance Anxiety

Dear Dr. Darcy I am the bread winner between my partner and me and I just lost my job.  She is very supportive of me and is trying to stay positive, but we have no money in savings, there are no jobs out there.  Sometimes I think she has her head in the clouds.  It’s…

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Cross-Dressing

Dear DR. Darcy, I am a 37 year old man with PTSD and a severe anxiety disorder. I use crossdressing ( hair, make-up, nails, etc.), acting feminine, and presenting as female, as a coping mechanism. It really seems to calm me down and keep me chilled out. What is your opinion on this? Do you…

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Tongue Tied

Dear Dr. Darcy, I fear I may have female-induced social anxiety. This is because whenever I get hit on by another woman, which happens about twice a year, I become so socially awkward and nervous that I say something ridiculous or redundant, and quite frankly do not know what to say at all. I try…

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10 Positive Ways to Kick Off 2011

1. Meditate. If you don’t and/or think you can’t, click to purchase Holosync, which will do all the hard/mindful work for you. WHY? Because using meditation, particularly Holosync, will enable you to follow through on the rest of your goals for 2011. 2. Find a workout buddy. WHY? People are much more likely to exercise…

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