I’m a Catch. So Why Am I Still Single?

These days, being a catch has become its own kind of identity.
Career? On point. Emotional intelligence? Check. Working with a therapist? Obviously.

And yet—so many people who are thriving in life are quietly wondering:
Why am I still single?

If that question hits a little too close to home, you’re not alone.

In this week’s episode of We Need to Talk with Dr. Darcy Sterling, Ashtyn and I unpack the disconnect between being successful in life—and why that doesn’t always translate into success in love.

Because here’s the truth:

You can be emotionally intelligent, deeply self-aware, and financially independent… and still struggle with intimacy. Still shut down in conflict. Still choose emotionally incompatible partners—or set the bar so high that no one ever has a shot.

We break down:

• Why the traits that fuel your success might be sabotaging your love life.
  
• How high standards can mask emotional unavailability.
  
• What it really means to be a “catch”—beyond the resume.

If you’ve ever thought, I’m doing everything right. So why isn’t this working? — this episode is your mirror and your manual.

Listen now and learn how to stop second-guessing and start showing up differently—because the goal isn’t just to look like a catch.

It’s to become one.

Xxoo Darcy