She Said, She Said.

Dr. Darcy, my girlfriend and I are both writing to you.  We had a big fight last weekend and neither of us thinks we’re wrong.  Hopefully you can help: Me (g.f.1): We went out to Stonewall.  My girlfriend went to the bathroom and while she was gone, my ex came up to me.  She was…

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Broken Heart

Dear Dr. Darcy: 3 weeks ago my girlfriend dumped me.  We were together for almost 2 years.  Since then I’ve felt like I was hit by a train.  I can’t sleep, have no interest in going out and I have tickets for an Olivia Cruise that I was supposed to go on with her. I…

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Mr. No Sex

Dr. Darcy: I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. He never comes on to me for sex. I tell him all the time I want more and try to love on him but he pushes me away. He denies this but we never have sex. I know this isn’t normal. What is he…

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Bottom’s Up

My girlfriend goes out a lot and sometimes drinks too much.  She’s a butch and bigger than I am so when this happens, it’s hard for me to take care of her.  Recently, she came home drunk and tried to have sex with me.  I was not in the mood because of how drunk she…

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Seek And You Shall Find

Dear Dr. Darcy: 2 years ago, my wife was acting suspicious and I could tell her mind wasn’t on me. I decided to put a web monitoring system on the computer.  For a week straight, when I went to work (the second I left the door) she began searching for her x-boyfriend. She went through…

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Surviving Rape

Dr. Darcy: About a year and a half ago I was raped by somebody I thought was a good friend. This is the last event in a long line of sexual assaults. Afterwards I completely withdrew from my friends and the lesbian social scene altogether.  I made myself a recluse.  Presently I am trying to…

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