Two Boys... And A Girl

Two Boys... And A Girl

Hi.  I’m a college freshman and have been dating my boyfriend since spring semester.  A few nights ago I had a guy friend visit from another school and we were hanging out in my suite with my boyfriend and sort of hooked up and had sex.  All of us.  The thing is it wasn’t so much about me and them as much as it was about them and each other.  So now I’m wondering if maybe my boyfriend is gay?! He’s very open sexually.  He’s always said that sexuality is fluid for most people.  I just didn’t think he was talking about himself.  He says it’s the first time he’s ever hooked up with a guy, but I can’t get the images out of my mind of how much he was enjoying hooking up with my guy friend.  I expected that we’d all be a little uncomfortable the next day and my boyfriend was so NOT uncomfortable.  He was like high all day over it.  No embarrassment whatsoever.   Am I making something out of nothing?

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6 Reasons Your Life Blows

6 Reasons Your Life Blows

Welcome to Tuesday's Tips at Ask Dr. Darcy! If you’re unhappy with any aspect of your life ~ the amount of money you have, the quality of your relationships, or your inability to reach your goals, it’s a result of 2 things:  The way you’re thinking and the way you are acting.

To get a new result, you’re going to have to adopt and employ a new way of thinking and acting.  It is that simple.

How can I be certain that you have to replace your current way of thinking and acting?  Because the definition of insanity is doing the same thing repeatedly and expecting a different result, and I’m making the presumption that you’re not insane.

Below are the 6 most common irrational beliefs that create unhappy lives.

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